Addressing Problems In Our Lives

The problem, There is not Reason

It is undeniable that today we live in a troubled time.  Perhaps even now is far more complex problem than the problem at first appears.  But the increasingly sophisticated technology available, but the problem is me - too advanced.

A friend once told me, there is one place where we could get rid of various problems.  Relax, all smooth and okay wrote.  Nobody whose name is much less stress headache because of the problem.  Where is it?  Grave.  Yes, just the dead that guns have a problem.  So how should we address the problem?

Please refer to the first story follows:

     A child was playing and found a cocoon of a butterfly on a low branch.  He took a cocoon and appears to exist a small hole there.

     The boy was stunned watching the small hole because it appears there was a butterfly that is struggling to free themselves out through the hole.  Then behold, the butterflies stop trying, he seemed already tried he could and it seems futile to exit through a small hole in the tip kempompongnya.

     Seeing this phenomenon, the child becomes pity and decided to help the butterfly out of its cocoon.  He also took the scissors and began to open the cocoon body with scissors for the butterfly could come out and fly freely.

     Once the cocoon opens, the butterfly came out with ease.  However, he still has the body of bloat and small.  Wings still appeared wrinkled.  The boy began watching more closely, hoping for the butterfly wings are growing so as to bring the tiny butterfly flies to the flowers in the garden.

     Hope lives of hope, of what awaited the child does not arrive.  Butterflies are forced to spend the rest of his life by crawling around them with bloated bodies and wings are still wrinkled and not develop properly.  The butterfly was finally not able to fly all his life.

     The boy apparently did not understand that the butterfly needs to struggle with his own efforts to free itself from its cocoon.  Small holes that need to be passed will force the fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that he will be ready to fly and gain freedom...

Such was the picture of the problems we face everyday.  The problem is not for us to avoid, but we face.  Because the problem is we can learn to become stronger, more mature, wiser, and even more other.

God is not stupid by creating problems for us.  Precisely because He loves us the people that the problem is people are created in such a way.  However, if we realize in Scripture (the Quran) Allah also said, promising that essentially is a problem that was revealed to us, will never exceed the limit of our ability to solve them.

That is, God already knows how much our ability to accept the problem.  People who are very very weak, certainly much less the portion of the problem.  Meanwhile, people who have many advantages, the problem is too many.  Just compare, an employee at the problem many business owners where?  Yes is a business owner.  Because the problem of employees become a problem also business owners.  So I never post, Entrepreneur Affairs Lord.

From here we can get a little look in the mirror and contemplate.  Why are our problems as if more weight than others?  Very simple, because in the eyes of God we are far better than anyone that the problem was-it wrote (lightly).  Because we are better, surely the problem is more complicated portions dong.  School children it is like that.  The more the next grade, the more difficult lesson, the harder it is also the exam.

So what should our attitude towards the problem?

Realize you can face all the problems that exist!  You believe in God and believe in equal rights!  If trust and confidence, you certainly do not doubt his word which says that every problem we face will not exceed the limit of our survival.

     Do not avoid the problem!  We did as much as possible does not look for trouble, but when problems come to face all your problems.  Complete one by one.  You certainly do not want it to be like a butterfly that can not fly, just because of all the affairs facilitated.

     There is always a good behind all the problems!  The problem does seem disturbing, but there must always be in our lives.  Why?  So that we know how much our ability.  And so we can continue to grow throughout life is to learn to take the wisdom of every problem we face.  Convince yourself, that every single problem you complete successfully, you've become a better person than before

     Focus on the end result, not the problem!  Problems usually arise when we are in the process of achieving a goal, whatever that is.  So from that than we complain about the problems there, it's better to focus on the end result.  This will make you stronger.  Moreover, with a focus on the ultimate goal, will help you to stay positive feeling and positive thinking (please read again; let me know what effect these two positives).

Sometimes there are thoughts too want to quit and stop fighting for dream.  But NO, because when I took the decision to quit then it is tantamount to me throwing my DREAM passive income for life at a young age.

And when we want to realize that the problem exists to strengthen and make us better.  Of course there will be a spirit in us to solve all problems.  Complete just one by one and eventually you'll be amazed at how incredible you’re self because it was able to get through it all.

So from now commit to always be ready to face the problems that come in your life.  Do not complain!  Just do it, because God knows best for us.